LIGHTING A MEMORIAL CANDLE
In Jewish tradition, a Memorial Candle is lit to remember and honor someone who has died. It is commonly called a yahrzeit candle or Ner Neshama (Hebrew for “soul candle”).
The phrase Ner Neshama comes from a verse in Proverbs 20:27:
“The soul of a person is the candle of God, searching all the innermost parts.”
The flame represents the soul and this verse is the primary biblical source for the custom of lighting a memorial candle in Jewish tradition: the human soul is compared to a flame; steady and rising toward the heavens. This simple act of lighting a candle carries emotional and spiritual weight in Jewish mourning practice.
Rather than expecting grief to dissipate over the passage of time, Judaism provides a ritual that allows mourners to return to remembrance again and again. Not only a way of honoring a departed loved one, it is established as a ritual for the living.